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We are aware that there is a need for more information and support for dad's whose partners are suffering from Pelvic Girdle Pain(PGP)/Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction(SPD). To say the least they are often left bewildered, confused and unsure about how best to help/support their partners.
We would like to have here also, a few personal accounts about how Dad's coped and what advice they would give to others in a similar situation so of this has affected you and you would like to share your experiences please get in touch with us by emailing info@pelvicinstability.org.uk Thankyou
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Pelvic Girdle Pain?
Pelvic Girdle Pain was previously known as Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction or SPD and these names are still commonly used. It is a condition which causes pain and mobility problems and is most often associated with pregnancy. The symptoms vary widely from mild occassional discomfort when walking to severe, debilitating symptoms which leave the women affected requiring crutches or a wheelchair.
How does it affect the women?
The symptoms, which can also vary quite significantly from day to day include:
- Pain in one or more joints of the pelvis, often affecting the pubic bone at the front or one or both sacro iliac joints at the back
- Pain in the lower back, hip joints or inner thighs.
- Pain in the groin or across the lower abdomen
- Pain and difficulty with walking
- Waddling gait
- Pain or difficulty moving their legs apart
- Difficulty with activities which involve standing on one leg such as dressing and climbing stairs
- Difficulties with activities of daily living including getting in and out of a car/turning over in bed and getting in and out of a bath
- Difficulties with household activities such as hoovering, lifting and carrying small children and pushing shopping trolleys.
- Clicking or grinding in the pelvic joints which may be heard or felt.
- It is not uncommon for people with pelvic girdle pain to also experience problems with leaking urine when they laugh, cough or sneeze (stress urinary incontinence)
- stiffness in the upper back
- knee pain or pain in other areas can sometimes be a side effect of pelvis problems
- Difficulty getting started walking especially after sleep
- Feeling like the hip is out of place or has to pop into place before walking
It is important that your partner's symptoms are properly assessed by a health professional, usually in the first instance your partner's GP, midwife or Obstetrician, not only to organise referral to a physiotherapist for further management and treatment but to enable other causes of pelvic pain in pregnancy to be ruled out.
As well as the physical symptoms listed above there are understandably often also associated emotional or psychological symptoms. If symptoms are being experienced after the baby is born or if you have young children already your partner may feel guilty that she is unable to fulfill her role as a mother and do the normal day to day things that the majority of mum's take for granted like bathing the baby and taking the kids to the playpark. She may feel frustrated at the loss of some or all of her independence and feel isolated and alone. You may feel angry and frustrated that what was supposed to be a joyous occassion has not turned out as planned and you may worry about what the future holds. Remember you are not alone with this problem. Early identification of the condition and appropriate treatment can reduce pain, increase mobility and lead to quicker recovery times.
What can I do to help?
Sit down with your partner and find out how pelvic girdle pain(PGP)/Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction(SPD) is affecting her day to day life. Find out what things in particular are causing her difficulty and figure out practical ways of making things easier. This may involve taking on the school run, asking friends or family to help with shopping or having children after school, asking neighbours for help with hanging out the washing, getting paid help with cleaning or organising extra childcare. Everyone is affected differently but problems which are commonly reported are lifting and carrying small children, pushing supermarket trolleys, household activities such as hoovering, bending down to pick things off the floor and getting in and out of cars. Shopping online is a good option if this is available in your area. Pushing heavy supermarket trolleys and carrying baskets of wet washing are to be avoided.Good regular communication is essential as symptoms also change and develop. Have a look at our practical advice and occupational therapy pages for more information.
What treatment is available?
The first step is to ask your partner's midwife or GP for a referral to a physiotherapist with experience in treating Pelvic Girdle Pain(PGP)/Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction(SPD). Depending on where you live this may either be an Obstetric Physiotherapist at the local maternity unit or a women's health physiotherapist who runs clinics at your local GP surgery/health centre.
The approach to treating Pelvic Girdle Pain has changed quite significantly over the last few years as more research evidence has come to light . This has demonstrated that in women with pelvic girdle pain/symphysis pubis dysfunction there is often an underlying mechanical problem rather than the condition being purely caused by the pregnancy hormones as was previously thought to be the case.
In some women there are differences in the amount of movement between the joints of the pelvis or alterations in the way that the muscles of the low back/pelvis/hip function to support the pelvis.
Women have found that "hands on treatment" during pregnancy to get stiff or stuck joints moving again and to release tight overactive muscles followed by exercises to get all the muscles in the lowback/pelvic/hip area working properly again can be very effective.
New Guidelines
Guidelines were published in 2007 by the Association of Chartered Physiotherapists in Women's Health and can be accessed by clicking here.
These guidelines are still fairly new and we are aware that not all physiotherapists are familiar/confident as yet with the recommended techniques. The traditional advice was to offer a support belt and if necessary crutches along with some advice regarding abdominal and pelvic floor exercises, however an individualised treatment and exercise programme is now recommended as women develop pelvic girdle pain for very different reasons.
We are developing contacts throughout the UK of practioners who are recommended for treating pelvic girdle pain so please contact us if you would like to recommend a practioner or if your partner requires assistance in finding one.
What other help is available?
Potentially lots but knowing how to access it is important.
If day to day activities such as bathing, dressing and cooking are causing difficulties a home assessment by an Occupational Therapist can be extremely helpful. There is often a high demand on their services and if there is going to be a delay it can be very useful to as to speak to them directly. Some items such as grabbers for picking things off the floor are relatively inexpensive and can be ordered through your local pharmacist. Your local Red Cross may also be able to help.
Organisation such as Home Start which operate throughout the UK can provide support and Shopmobility Schemes can make trips out to the shops possible again. Social services can provide a care package and home helps to assist with shopping, cooking etc but this does vary from area to area.
Will the baby be affected?
There are no reports of pelvic girdle pain affecting the baby.
What about the birth?
It is important that your partner makes the team looking after her aware of the fact that she has pelvic girdle pain(PGP)/Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction(SPD) and that this is recorded clearly in her maternity records. It would also be worthwhile getting her to write a simple birth plan with information about pelvic girdle pain affects her. If she has pain moving her legs apart then she should ask the midwife or physiotherapist looking after to measure her pain free gap which is the distance she can move her legs apart without pain whilst lying on her back with her knees bent. This should also be recorded in her notes. Your partners midwife or physiotherapist can also advise on suitable positions for labour and birth and on positions to be avoided. Have a look at the ACPWH guidelines for further information on suitable birthing positions.
Will a C-Section be needed?
Most women with pelvic girdle pain will not need a C-Section for this reason alone but it is hardly surprising that many women request one given the often terrifying reports of giving birth with pelvic girdle pain in the popular press and women's magazines. At the other extreme many women are told that their birth will be much more straightforward as their ligaments are "already so stretchy" and although many women with pelvic girdle pain do have very straightforward births for others it is not quite so straightforward as there does appear to be a tendency for some of these babies to lie in an OP position which can prolong labour and sometimes lead to intervention. (This is our own personal opinion based on our own experiences and those of others and and we are not aware of any research in this area.) Your partner's midwife can advise on optimal foetal positioning to get the baby into the best possible position for birth. For a small number of women with severe pelvic girdle pain and whose mobility is very restricted, elective C-section may be the best option but it is a decision to be made after a full discussion with your Obstetrician about the risks/benefits of the procedure.
How soon will it get better afterwards?
Research studies have shown that the majority of women (approximately 93%) recover within the first three months after giving birth. However a small precentage can, if the condition is untreated, continue to have symptoms which can persist for a prolonged period of time. We would recommend that any women experiencing symptoms after their baby is born to ask for referral to an apropriately trained physiotherapist and not simply "wait and see" if their symptoms settle down. In the research studies it was often women who has serious pain during pregnancy and pain for a longer period of time who were more likely to have ongoing pain after delivery and these studies looked at women who had no treatment for their condition.
What about future pregnancies?
This is a very individual decision and one that only you and your partner can make. Research indicates that having pelvic girdle pain in one pregnancy does mean that it is more likely to recur in a future pregnancy. However, as the reasons why it occurs are very different depending on the individual it would be worthwhile in the first instance asking for advice from the health professionals who treated your partner previously and who know her full history. They can give advice on fitness and exercises before conceiving and some physiotherapists offer a pre conception appointment. Other factors to consider are the care of your older child/ren and how your partner would cope should her pelvic girdle pain symptoms recur. Lifting and carrying small children is a frequently reported difficulty and for this reasom some health professionals advocate waiting until older children get past the lifting stage before trying for another baby. It would also be advisable to wait until any symptoms from one pregnancy have settled before conceiving another child.
Further general information for expectant and new fathers can be accessed on the Dad Info website.
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